I assume there will be some troll replies to this, and I'm good with that. But I also know it's impossible to get such a broad range of opinions, advice, and knowledge anywhere else. So here it goes.
I'm looking for advice or experiences on dealing with a family member that has become addicted to pain pills.
I have a family member that has never done illegal recreational drugs (AFAIK) but has had a life filled with medical issues, and at one point had around 8 surgeries in 2 or 3 years. Those led to some lingering pain issues, and then was topped off with a broken foot about 4 years ago, that has never properly healed.
She was going through pain management and was getting 120 lortab a month for years. Obviously at some point the 120 wasn't enough, with increased tolerance. But the doctor never increased it. And he stopped seeing her entirely about 2 months ago because she failed a drug test
About 18 months ago, I really started noticing changes in moods, attitude, personality, etc. I also became aware of bottles of other individual's pills that would come up missing, that only 1 or 2 people had access to, along with money starting to come up missing. And now that the doctor has cut her off, it's quickly getting exponentially worse with things I'm noticing.
There are other facts, but it all adds up to, I'm certain this person has a problem, even if it started out of necessity, like I'm sure lots of addicts do.
I've put off confronting this person for a long time, but it's getting to a point that it has to happen. They'll obviously deny at first, but I have enough proof that I think, at least, a small confession is likely.
I guess I'm looking more for advice on how to handle it after that. If they are willing to get help voluntarily, what's the best route? Go to doctor, rehab, or what? I know stopping cold turkey will be almost impossible if not dangerous. And what's the odds of success? And I guess, also what to do if they just refuse to admit it. I have googled some but I'm looking for real life experiences. And that's what the Bunker is great for.
I know it's going to be a long process and prayers are appreciated.
I'm looking for advice or experiences on dealing with a family member that has become addicted to pain pills.
I have a family member that has never done illegal recreational drugs (AFAIK) but has had a life filled with medical issues, and at one point had around 8 surgeries in 2 or 3 years. Those led to some lingering pain issues, and then was topped off with a broken foot about 4 years ago, that has never properly healed.
She was going through pain management and was getting 120 lortab a month for years. Obviously at some point the 120 wasn't enough, with increased tolerance. But the doctor never increased it. And he stopped seeing her entirely about 2 months ago because she failed a drug test
About 18 months ago, I really started noticing changes in moods, attitude, personality, etc. I also became aware of bottles of other individual's pills that would come up missing, that only 1 or 2 people had access to, along with money starting to come up missing. And now that the doctor has cut her off, it's quickly getting exponentially worse with things I'm noticing.
There are other facts, but it all adds up to, I'm certain this person has a problem, even if it started out of necessity, like I'm sure lots of addicts do.
I've put off confronting this person for a long time, but it's getting to a point that it has to happen. They'll obviously deny at first, but I have enough proof that I think, at least, a small confession is likely.
I guess I'm looking more for advice on how to handle it after that. If they are willing to get help voluntarily, what's the best route? Go to doctor, rehab, or what? I know stopping cold turkey will be almost impossible if not dangerous. And what's the odds of success? And I guess, also what to do if they just refuse to admit it. I have googled some but I'm looking for real life experiences. And that's what the Bunker is great for.
I know it's going to be a long process and prayers are appreciated.
