It's his job to win football games, not run some pageantry operation. Your perception is skewed because you're an auburn fan, and the only interpretation you make of him is from his public outbursts towards members of the media.
He's raised and donated millions to people in need, and that's not just limited to locals in Tuscaloosa. I know the guy and can put up with him being an asshole as long as players continue to want to play for him.
Let's call a spade a spade. He's taken a colossal midget dump all over college football, simultaneously causing coaches to lose their jobs and reporters to film coordinators packing their shit up out of their offices (poor Tony Franklin).
And just for good measure, he forces redneck losers like
@Sanctions Stand into a deep spiral of depression.
If you don't want your son(s) learning how to be a leader and win in all facets of life, that's on you. We live in an age where a participation trophy is acceptable, so there's that.