If you are attempting to say that the majority of blacks in this country, (younger generation or otherwise), want segregation, you are LYING through your teeth or extremely ignorant as to what the general sentiment is. What folks really want, is a level playing field....period. That's it, (but for many, it's too much to ask and folks just want them to sit down, shut up, and be happy that you're in this country). You establish a level playing field, (especially early on, right after abolition), and you'd likely NEVER hear even the relative few that you hear today advocating such things.
The government started the whole AA thing as a jump starter to try to make headway in what we all agree was systematic racism. I don't like AA, but how else do you get folks to change their hearts, minds and jumpstart a level playing field??? By forcing schools to integrate and forcing companies to hire blacks, it allowed the next generation to see that blacks COULD indeed perform in these positions, so that now, many later generations see it as normal. Without that, it's highly unlikely we'd have even the level of participation that we have today.
You're complaining about people getting a few civil rights and demanding to be labeled what they want to be called, but again, if you simply do what's right before God, and at any point after abolition, actually TREAT THEM LIKE AMERICANS, with equal rights, and welcome them into society, and educational institutions, and equal jobs and training with the commensurate remediation, and you'd NEVER have anyone wanted to be called anything else. It's just amazing that folks who strain and search for anything to complain about and put down blacks, can't see these simple truths. Your entire post appears to be a latent rant where you're searching for valid reasons to impugn blacks.